*By Sheila Kelley*

Welcome to December, a month to celebrate love, life and family! This month S Factor is exploring the Joyful Playmate Erotic Creature Icon.

We have all 10 Erotic Creature Icons in our body – core biological emotions that serve the purpose of getting us what we need to survive in life. Check out the icons we’ve met so far in the blog section of our website.

**Who is the Joyful Playmate?**

She is the Erotic Creature that comes from the core body emotion of joy – play, celebration, freedom, happiness and ecstasy. The Joyful Playmate seeks adventure and exploration – she is a wild and free party animal!

**Why do you need her?**

The Joyful Playmate will fill your life with new experiences and will show you how to feel the thrill of being alive. Every living mammal does three things: eat, fornicate and play. Playing is a miracle of creation. It is possible that play has no adaptive evolutionary purpose – scientists have not come to a consensus on the purpose of play. Crows snowboard, dogs wrestle, birds play games dropping and catching their food.. Play can reduce stress and aggression, improve coordination and fitness… Not to mention it’s FUN! And why do you need her in your erotic life? It’s simple – she’ll give you a playful, endorphin-fueled romp!

**How can you find her?**

Start by finding clothing, textures, scents, sounds, songs that bring out your Joyful Playmate. The Joyful Playmate is all about fun and excitement. To bring her out, try playful accessories like ruffles, fringe or pom poms, or bright sneakers that allow you to run and romp.  Music is another powerful way to access your emotional body and Erotic Creature Icons – start searching for your Joyful Playmate song. A song that has a buoyant, lively quality – any sound, melody or sound wave that makes you bounce with happiness! Watch my video below to hear more about the Joyful Playmate and how I am channeling her in my own life. Share your Joyful Playmate song with me with me in the comments section below the video – and let her inspire you to have the most fun holiday season ever!

With love and joy,

XO Sheila

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